So I have been single for more than 2 month and up until a week ago I had no means of contact with him. Not because I had no phone but He decided that it would be best not to have contact so we can over come the break up. I had to respect his decision.

Got a surprise Last week when he sent a message to "just pop in and find out how I am because his mother was speaking about me" i replied and thought to myself u should have wanted to speak to me out of your own not be reminded that i exist.

He seems really happy and prospering in his new journey into following his dreams. Him being so happy made me feel as if I did not make him happy but I remembered that happiness starts with yourself and then only you can truly be happy with another. I wished him luck and best wishes with the final stages of achieving his goal, not because it was the right thing to do but because I truly and deeply only want the best for him.

I always reminded myself that if things should end I would want that person to leave the relationship with at least one positive thing that they can take with into the next relationship/ journey. and I believe I have done that with him and I am greatful and joyful that God has blessed me the opportunity to help someone, improve on themselves too.

So now I have decided that its Time for Simone to do her like I have done all my life but do me by building on the current me. get better emotionally, build spiritually and physical became a better Goddess.

New Moto , when it comes to relationships:

So being single is a journey, a journey that still needs to be defined and established, just like the journey of my gymnastics career.
-besides I have more free time to work on my Body, so look out for the fitness types.

Joy, Love and peace 

Natural attitude

So exams have come and gone and now I am on holiday, with friends.

I have decided to improve on myself, both internally and externally-why? because personal growth is important for individual if she/he wishes to move forward in life and create a better life for her/him self.

I know that my Interpersonal communication skills suck asss... I''ve been told by both Jonty and Charne (trusted sources), if i wish to be an outstanding and awesome Public Relations Practitioner, I need this and if I wish to pursue relationships in the future, it is an essential requirement. so what am I going to do to improve: Be aware of others around me and read their body language as that can help me to establish what the person's  intends are, be open to express my feelings because yes I suck at that! Be clear and use the appropriate medium... the rest I will establish because if is about learning and finding your own way to figure things out.

So this was me a few Months ago. I would do the works on my hair and it would be time consuming...

 So I have decided to go Natural, not because of others but I feel that I owe it to myself to try and see what will come of this new experience. I am a curly Baba with really bushy hair. Many of my friends would say, why Simone- you have wonderful hair when its straight. I believe that my opinion counts most. Besides everyone is trying to be this perfect female that seen in the magz, media etc- perfect hair styles. I've always seen myself as unique with a dash of weirdness and a spot of sophistication.

So this is me, Right now

I am enjoying the new experience and loving it. THIS IS ME, JELLYBABY!

I wish for insight from all.

love, peace and Kindness