So I have been single for more than 2 month and up until a week ago I had no means of contact with him. Not because I had no phone but He decided that it would be best not to have contact so we can over come the break up. I had to respect his decision.
Got a surprise Last week when he sent a message to "just pop in and find out how I am because his mother was speaking about me" i replied and thought to myself u should have wanted to speak to me out of your own not be reminded that i exist.
He seems really happy and prospering in his new journey into following his dreams. Him being so happy made me feel as if I did not make him happy but I remembered that happiness starts with yourself and then only you can truly be happy with another. I wished him luck and best wishes with the final stages of achieving his goal, not because it was the right thing to do but because I truly and deeply only want the best for him.
I always reminded myself that if things should end I would want that person to leave the relationship with at least one positive thing that they can take with into the next relationship/ journey. and I believe I have done that with him and I am greatful and joyful that God has blessed me the opportunity to help someone, improve on themselves too.
So now I have decided that its Time for Simone to do her like I have done all my life but do me by building on the current me. get better emotionally, build spiritually and physical became a better Goddess.
New Moto , when it comes to relationships:
So being single is a journey, a journey that still needs to be defined and established, just like the journey of my gymnastics career.
-besides I have more free time to work on my Body, so look out for the fitness types.
Joy, Love and peace
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ReplyDelete''No relationship is ever a waste of time. if it didn't bring you what you want, it taught you what you don't want.'' close your eyes, clear your heart, let it go and move on. you've done your best but unfortunately it didn't work out according to your expectations.you have an amazing life, career & opportunities ahead of you. work on that and that awesome body of yours and everything else will fall in its place on its time
ReplyDeleteYou are so right! It didnt bring me what I wanted biut it taught and made me realise what I need out of life and a relationship. after 4 months its even more clear to me that focus on what you need and want out of life. You are such an inspiration
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