It is what it is

Why do things have to be this way??? so loveless! Part of me wants to feel affection and be appreciated but I do not want the boyfriend/ relationship platform. I always end up giving them 100 % and they end up taking 110% and move on with their lives after I supported and stood by them through all challengers. its not their fault that I am a giver however its unfair to place all fault in myself. 

Today is the day I stop caring about what people think of me and stop caring about those individuals who see my kindness as a weakness, because its not. People are always going to have a problem with who you are. Whether you kind, a walk over, a bitch with a stick or just plain boring old Jane. People are always going to have something to say, negative or positive= Its for me to decide what I value most.

Sometimes even in a relationship the lines of what you value can become blur, as all you wish to do is be happy, make your partner happy and find mutual understanding. I know from past experience that I always end up putting his needs ahead of mind because I only wish for happiness and once he's taken it all and he's prospering and achieving his dreams and goals- He moves on,on to brighter and greater things.
The 80/20 rule states that in a relationship you will only get 80% of what you want and the other 20% is mutual understanding.

Life isn't complicated, we as human's complicate it with our demands, mistakes, damage souls and selfish ways.